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Please Help...Breast Lift Or Not?

Hi, i'm 21 and after having 2 kids i feel my breasts are saggy and have gotten smaller. i used to be 12C and although my cup size hasnt changed my breasts do not fill up the bra like they used to. Because of this I feel unattractive, depressed and have low self esteem. i feel as though my husband does not find me attractive anymore as he never seems interested in me. when i ask him if i am attractive he won't answer and just change the topic or walk away. :( i have thought of having a breast lift and maybe implants i just want to know what other guys think. do guys find natural breasts attractive or implants?

Public Comments

1. Natural all the way. Please don't ruin yourself with implants.
2. implants are gross. get another guy if he doesn't find you attractive. i like natural boobs way more - they are soooo soft.
3. ...and men are the ones who are insecure about their organs
4. Bodies change with childbirth, aging, etc...why have a surgical procedure (with potential dangers) because of this. Do some exercises. Most men don't want to constantly be asked "Am I attractive?" "Do I look fat?" etc...it's immature and monotonous. You have 2 kids...enjoy them, enjoy being a young wife and mom, and don't be so self-absorbed in something that's not important
5. Nautral! Having a breastlift wont change how you feel about yourselve. It will change how you look! If you have a problem with how you look its from your head. Not you breasts!
6. i am not a guy but i think if shaggy breasts is an issue for u i think u better get implants. i have 3 kids and shaggy breasts too but it's not an issue for me and my man says he loves my breasts. also i train in gym it helps to lift whatever u have left
7. Doing exercises, using special lotions, push-up bras, sexy lingerie and not asking him stupid questions that usually annoy guys (am i pretty??) ...and when you've done all these and he still doesn't find you attractive, you can post the question again. But until that, you should do your best! Good luck, and trust me he'll find you beautiful, just don't moan and cry but do something about the problem! Implants are never a good solution, they will feel weird and you won't recognize yourself in the mirror. Try the natural ways first. You can do it! :))
8. relax you can't be too hard on yourself. Do not hold yourself to impossible standards. if your husband won't talk to you, well that's not good. maybe you are trying too hard, too needy. Maybe he's an assho=e. but it likely has nothing to do with your breasts.
9. no don't be daft - won't fix how you feel about yourself
10. Ive had 3 kids and 6 months ago I gave myself the best gift I could ever give. I had the "girls" taken from a 12C to a 12E !!!! yeeehhhhaaarrr life is great. I feel sexy and it is amazing how much your love life will turn around when you can stand in front of hubby with the lights on and rip your clothes off knowing that he wont be watchin TV tonight......
11. I think the foundation to relationships are 1. trust and 2. how the person makes you feel. For me when 1 of these things no longer exist then there is no relationship. I've read everyone's comments and i'm very suprised on how many great answers there are. they did give you great advice but they left out, the fact is you can change right? you can change how you look. But you can't change him you can't change how he thinks. He has to change. He has to wantto be with you for you no matter whatyou look like esp since you have kids togther. If he doesn't love you for you then who will he love you as? huh? That means you have to be something your are not. There is only 1 you be, true to you.