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i have a complicated question but im not sure how to explain it via question so read and see if you can answer?
ok im a twin i was born with so many problems i wasnt ment to live my twin sister has no problems how does this work also my mother had a miscarage well she had the miscarrage and found out she was having twins and then when i was born they found the remains of a baby which would have been my identical twin brother could his death be the cause of all my medical problems or could he have been worse of then me and was to under developed to survive and that i was just lucky to have developed just a bit more than he had and to be more specific about my medical history i have had open heart surgery many operations on my stomach because of reflux and heart burn, i have a narrow air way (i dont know the correct turm)i dont even know what is exactly wrong with me and what has been done to me usually i just go opn the operating table trusting that the surgeons know what they are suposed to be doing i have upto 4 doctors folders in some hostpitals and docters surgeries fomr edmitions and check ups if that makes it abit easier to under stand how sick i have been over the years now im nearly 17 so im still pretty young so can anyone answer my question or does anyone even under stand what im talkin about ok i see where u are comming from but i am also an identical twin my brother died so i would of though that comming form the same egg we would have had the same problems and because we where in the same area other than my sister(i dont rememeber what its called) his death i would have though might have had an effect on me because it hurts the mother when a baby dies so wouldnt it do damage to me?
Public Comments
- I don't think it really has anything to do with the twin who didn't survive, I have twins and they both got sick with the same thing at virtually the same time. My son was in intensive care for a couple of days but my daughter was there for 3 and a half weeks and we came very close to losing her. She also has brain damage and is likely to have lung damage aswell. All kids are different. Twins or not.
- Hun i think i sort of know from both sides..I am a mum of twins now aged 10 Kylie and Thomas, I had two healthy babies but when Thomas got to three he was diagnosed with severe autism he is non verbal and still in nappies/diapers, so i can see from both views Kylie often asks me why Thomas has autism and she doesn't in fact a lot of people ask me all the time about this, and if we knew your mum included we would be very rich, no one knows what or why things happen its just a part of life, i just know my son has a life long disabilty and i have to do my best for both my kids, not sure if i answered your question just though but i had a try ..stay strong !
