Breast Augmentation?
Ladies only for the obvious. My girlfriend is getting a breast augmentation soon. What changes did you go through when you got yours. Were you happier, did it help your self esteem? Did it make you more distant from your man? Did you get newfound attention that you didn't get before? My girlfriend has a low self esteem and I think this is just what she needs, agree or disagree?
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- Congrats!!!!
- Self Esteem should never hinge on breast augmentation.....
- If it's her choice, Then yes she will feel better. but if she's unhappy now, She will never get happy with them. maybe YOU need to help her on her self Esteem issues. Only you can.:) But I wish her the best of luck with her surgery.
- I will say I am very glad I did it, I did feel a bit better about myself but it was just feeling more feminine not more self esteem because I had bigger boobs, it was nice to fill out a shirt.. As for new found attention yeah of course it happens but you just ignore it!! She needs to do it for herself and herself ONLY!!
- Disagree. Feelings of self-esteem have to come from within and bigger hooters might make her feel a little better for a short time, but without the inner work, she will be right back to having low self-esteem, in fact maybe even lower because she'll think the attention is only about big boobs, not who she is as a person.
- I wish her the best of luck - I want one soo bad.. it will definetly help her boost her confident level... u might not understand.. some guys are like Oo ur have such nice big boobs etc etc.. but honestly they are a hasssel you always feel liek nothing fits right and you look top heavy... and not to mention the fear of sagging... I think it will be great for her...As long as scaring doesnt occur too badly she shoudl be feeling excited.. and more excited to shop... u'll see. I do no think it will make her distant from you... if you two are close she should want u to be there .. and check her out n stuff make sure everything looks right...
- it could improve her self esteem, for a while or up to certain level... she has to deal with much greater than breast augmentation to have higher self esteem. Mine are naturally big so I could be wrong :)
- Hello there! I'm as flat as a pancake and I don't have a low selfsteam... I believe it has to do with how you feel inside yourself. Surgeries are an externalization of an inner issue... There're great chances that she'd feel better. The way she looks at herself will improve. You will just have to be there to help her improve her psychis. And that takes much more time than a surgery. I really don't know how she will react towards you, but I guess that depends on the person, and there's not an obvious way of acting after getting a breast augmentation. Hope everything goes just fine for both of you. Kisses!
- I have not had one but my mother has. I learned a lot from hers. She was a little down about not having big breast. So she went to have it done. She was so much happier after the pain was over. She had them placed in her chest muscles because she is very active. My mother is 35 years old she did get a lot of attention already but I think after she had her boobs done she felt better and got more attention then she did before. She is married and has not been distant as a matter of fact she told me it made her sex life better then it had ever been.. Its just a boost of confidence I think anyone that would like to have them done should. So I agree.. Here are some good links you should look at.
- Good for her, I know I love my twins I would highly recommend them. It really depends on the person if it helps on how you feel about yourself go for it or if you just need to add alittle extra spice in the bedroom hey that is good too. I did it because after having two kids (our) boobies tend to go south. I am a 36C (full C). Thinking of going one size bigger I guess... I just want to, I love them. I mean after you heal you will love them too. I don't show them off only for my hubby so to answer your question your girlfriend will love them and hope nothing changes for you guys as far as your relationship only for the better. Hopefully she will only show them off to you. Take Care and Good Luck!!!
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